Think in Other's shoe...

Recently i had a chat with Alfred bro.. hhmmm.. i learnt something from him.. think of something or judge on things in tat someone's shoe... take tis for example.. i m a 19yo teen.. then i m in this situation where i m short of cash coz my mom nids money for operation.. n i fell into depression.. coz of stress from it n loads of assignments.. then when i tell someone hu are older.. just hoping tat i can tell someone.. tats all.. not with the hope of they give me money of coz.. then.. tat someone just say tat i bitch about it.. say me fan.. n say its just a small matter.. -.-" hhmmm.. as for me.. i will feel very sad lo.. in this kind of situation.. u say i fan n bitch bout everything..

then.. came this god bro.. he told me tat its ok.. life is like tat.. at 1st he tot tat i m annoying too.. but then when he think bout it.. its a growing process.. he have gone tru it... he understand my feeling.. n help me by talking to me n listening to me.. he said tat its my attitude tat i m like tat.. n he is ok with it.. n tis is the time when someone older gives help n chance to me when i nid it.. so i m very glad tat he did so..

tis story says tat.. no matter wat u do.. must think in tat person's shoe.. to tat person, the matter seems big n important as tat person is still new at it n trying to grow with it.. u are not helping by just judging tat person by saying they fan or ask them to keep quiet n stuff.. for all those extra years of experience and knowledge u got over tat person for being in tat age.. i bet u wud think tat the same matter is such a small one coz u ady got everything it takes to handle it.. y dun u just think of it from his point of view? rather than getting angry n scolding him for being in tat stage.. i m sure u have been tru tat time n stage too.. n tat time i m sure u wan someone to listen to u n help u.. but not scolding u.. rite? if u are able to think of things in tat person's shoe.. i bet there wud be a lot more hope in this world.. n less ppl will commit suicide..

STOP BITCHING!!!

OK... life is like tat...

now i noe the real meaning of ' frenz in school days must appreciate it as u wont get fren hu are as sincere as those from school..' when i trusted someone, n i got betrayed over n over again.. or just got cheated over n over again.. just lost the trust in ppl... n how ppl are so realistic...

sometimes its just tat diff ppl will just have diff taste.. if i aint ur taste.. i take the hint.. hehe.. sometimes its just hard to please someone.. esp when they dun talk to u, act arrogant nia.. then if u try to talk with them or communicate with a sincere heart of just being a fren, they say u stupid or dumb or childish.. or they will say u fan.. if u say 'fine, if tats the case, got the hint n leave u..' then they say u small gas.. WTF man!?

Hhmmm.. thx to god bro chris... i shall go on with the DMOP (Desmond Make Over Plan) as soon as possible now... n i shall make revenge.. ngek ngek.. LOL.. okok.. stop bitching around n get on with my life.. nobody appreciate having me as a fren? i shall not bitch about it anymore.. aint worth it.. ^.^ accept me for hu i m not wan me to become the one u wan in ur heart...

conclusion? stop bitching, Desmond!

Enchanted

After watching the movie 'Enchanted', i was amazed by the plot, setting, characters, make ups etc... its actually very entertaining.. i tot it was something for the kids.. lol.. but it turns out to be quite entertaining n i got a few lessons from it.. some point of views.. some things which i had forgot long ago.. perhaps u guys too...

Love is something simple... it shud be simple.. when everything is gone, or shit happens, just think of the things which attracts u to that guy/gal... u wud be surprised by the outcome... if u realise, its just a sweet smile, watery eyes, cute lil dimples or perhaps just a silly lil movement... its really sweet when u think of it.. sad things happens all the while.. so are u gonna spend all ur happy times on it ? no rite? LOL.. quote from the movie.. hehe..

the greatest power of all.. is the kiss of a true love... LOL.. it is indeed the greatest power of all.. hehe..

Mr/Ms Perfect.. i wonder y everyone is looking for such individuals... n does such person really exist? the answer... depends.. depends on wat is ur Mr/Ms Perfect.. as different ppl wan different things.. however, the one tat suits us the most.. be with us the longest.. happiest.. wud be Mr/Ms Right... n this individual is usually not 100% perfect.. perhaps just 50% ? lol... but then they are happily together forever n ever.. so y wud someone dream of Perfect when wat suits us is Right..

with my previous posts... i think a lot of ppl might have misunderstood me.. hhmmm.. but i just dun wanna say anything bout it.. if u dun blif me.. then i duno wat shud i say.. watever i say oso u wont blif.. but bear in mind.. i dun simply fuck ppl off.. n after watching the movie.. i just realise tat watever we do.. just keep an optimistic mindset n happy n the most important thing... LOVE... then it wud be a better day for u, me, n everyone...

love ya everyone.. spread the love..

Cute Or Embarassing ?!

here is a situation at work today.. hehe...

its meal time!!! cool!!! then i went to the staff canteen to look around. i was looking at the food menu n figuring what should i eat.. once i m done with ordering, then i notice tat someone is looking at me.. i tot i noe tat someone.. so i looked back at tat someone n smile.. damn cute! LOL.. well, tat someone is kinda cute.. hehe... after tat, i stand next to the water cooler to wait for my food. after about few minutes, tat someone came over to take water.. refill the water bottle.. hehe.. after tat someone turn on the tap, tat someone looked at me.. AGAIN! lol.. then i was too shy.. then i turn away to look the other side.. then when i turn back, tat someone still looking at me! tis time tat someone smiled! then i smiled back.. hehe.. while i was trying to avoid tat someone's eyes, the funniest thing happened~! the water bottle over flow n spilled! LOLOLOL... i just noe tat someone blushed n we were both giggling away... cute or embarassing ?! LOL.. i think its cute... well.. its on tat someone hu is kinda cute.. i duno.. hehe... hope i get to meet tat someone again tml.. looking forward to it!!!

ADIOS AMINGO~! time to sleep.. hehe.. my legs are killing me... thx to the stupid carpark paying machine of ioi mall !! n of coz my work.. LOL...

p/s : there is no point in treating someone good if tat someone doesnt appreciate me... after so long.... i think i had enuf of it.. i tried watever i cud... i m a failure.. i give up...