'Mask'

People been telling me that wearing a 'mask' and hiding behind it its essential in this crucial world. Last time i would disagree with them about it. I would say that sometimes showing your inner feelings towards others it's okay. There would be arguments and all.......

Now, I would agree with them. Wearing a 'mask' IS essential. Hide all your inner feelings and thoughts. Hide whatever you got behind that 'mask' and wear a 'robe' if possible. Don't show others what is your Power Card / Last Card / watever card you call it.. lol... Don't show your desperation either. In the Law of Bargaining - NEVER show that you are desperate! Showing others and telling others about you being sad and crying in front of them its a form of stupidity and weakness.It shows that you are weak. You would not want that to happen as you grow older.

I am not the only one who thinks so. It won't be surprised that 80% of the adult population out there is wearing a 'mask' everyday. Why ? In this crucial world, especially adults in the business world, working world and relationship, nobody wants to get hurt. Showing too much of your inner thoughts and feelings tends to be a disadvantage to you. If they have to, people will tend to hide away, fake their smile and fake the things they say. If not, you will be the one who have to bear the consequences.

Run Away~

There are times when you just want to be alone...
no matter how talkative and active you are...
you still want to be alone...
its like a phase...
all of a sudden..
you just want to run and hide...
run far far away from wherever you are..
just want to run away to somewhere where nobody knows you..
a place where you would not need to worry about things..
just run far far away from people that you know.. family, frenz, colleague etc.
There are no rational reasons behind it..
you just want to run away...
You just want to be away from people...
Want some peace.. Some quiet time...
Its so tiring... you just want to relax...

I am feeling so... and i am not alone.. there are a few people around me who feels the same too.. what happened ? nobody knows.. Reason? nobody knows either... Don't ask me.. i don't know why i am feeling it also... >.<"

Watch Your Lips and Mouth

Recently, a lot of things happened... It made me think a lot. We shouldn't take things for granted. Appreciate what you have because you might lose it the very next moment. You wont know what will happen in the future. Do your best Now. Learn from Your past experience. Work for a Better Future. i Finally understand this idiom or watever you call it.. LOL!

That day i saw the front page of a newspaper : Watch your Mouth and Lips. Although i did not read about the article, but it got me thinking. That got me realize about some mistakes i have done. Haiz.. too late.. i made mistakes which i regretted a lot !!! Basically what i am trying to say in this blog is that, Watch what you say... The hardest and most complicated subject to learn in this life i think would be the art of communication between people. Master it and you will benefit from it A LOT! Fail it and you will face problems in life, especially when you get older and come out to work.

I have been thinking about these to help me improve and grow from my mistakes...

1. What....
What are you going to say ?
Trying to please your boss...
i. 'Boss! You look so pretty today! ' ( Correct )
ii 'Boss! You have small boobs! ' ( Wrong )

2. Who...
Who are you saying it to ?
Trying to compliment...
i. ' Babe! you have the nicest boobs i have ever seen! ' ( Correct )
ii. ' Dude ! you have the nicest boobs i have ever seen! ' ( Wrong )

3. Where...
Where are you saying it ?
i At a party ' AWESOME!!! Lets Rock and Roll! ' ( Correct )
ii At a church service ' AWESOME!!! Lets Rock and Roll! ' ( Wrong )

4. When...
When are you saying it ?
i. ' Its delicious! ' When you are eating at a restaurant ( Correct )
ii. ' Its delicious! ' When you are shitting in da toilet ( Wrong )

5. Why...
Why are you saying it ?
i. ' You have a nice body ! ' to show compliment ( Correct )
ii ' You have a nice body ! ' to show sarcastism ( Wrong )

6. How...
How are you saying it ?
i ' I think you have a drip of sauce on your shirt that you might want to clean it ' ( Correct )
ii ' Don't you know how to eat ?! Sauce are all over your shirt ! ' ( Wrong )

Think twice before you speak next time... you might hurt someone and you might regret about it. It might get you a promotion or a lover or a new house or car ^.^ Saying the right thing at the right time at the right place to the right person with the right way and right reason is the thing you need to learn !

Grow Not Change

Once, someone told me that everything changes, but human does not change. Why? because we grow. Two years back, i had an opportunity to read an awesome book called ' Who Moved My Cheese ? '. For those who are fond of reading, i am sure you would have read it, or at least know about this book. Anyway, i am not going into details about this book. All i just want to say its just that this book shows me how does changes in our life affect us and how we deal with it.

Whatever happens, good, bad, happy, sad, big, small etc. we must appreciate it. No matter what. Accept it. Look through it. Look around it. Think about it for a moment or two. Adapt to its changes. Pack up your feelings and whatever you can learned from it and then move on. For better or worse, at least you had tried before.

By moving on, it means that you are accepting the fact of what had changed. One thing which i need to clarify and emphasize here : moving on doesnt only mean that you are changing whatever you have. It can also mean that you grow from what you have experienced. It isnt always the option to just leave the thing for a better one. Especially in relationship. Although it is always the best to just move on and find another who will be a better ( or worse ) partner. But then it doesnt mean that you CANT stick with the current one.

Hhhmmm.. let me explain further on this issue. What would be better is that if you can grow from your mistakes and attitudes. CHANGE to become better. Not only for yourself nor your partner but for everyone else either. It is always da best for someone to grow to become a better person. For example, if you have broken up in a relationship due to your bad temper or you are being a big spender, GROW up dude! change that bad habit of yours ! GROW up and become more mature and you would start to think about it. Think about your bad habits. Then you will start to realise things. And make changes to it. To become a better person. And who knows that your Ex partner will love you back ? Or your Boss will promote you instead of firing you ?